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Monday, January 12th, 2009

Dowry System A Curse Forced on Women

One of the burning problems of the society is the dowry System. Apart from some other countries, Dowry System has most common in India and it is still practiced in Indian Society. It happens in many families rich or poor, educated or uneducated. This reflects the unhealthy condition of our society. The birth of female child is felt as a curse. The reason is that the girl becomes a burden to the parents at the time of marriage. This is because of dowry system.

Dowry means the money, gold, silver and other things given to a girl by her parents at the time of her marriage. Once they were given out of affection and not out of compulsion. But today the situation is quite different. Dowry is demanded as a right. Dowry death has become a common occurrence. So many poor girls remain unmarried.

It is impossible to eradicate this evil by laws. Unless and until the people realize its ill effects sincerely, dowry system will prevail. If the bridegroom is good, he can heal the wounds by being kind to her. He can request or compel his parents to treat her like their daughter. But in most of the families the bridegroom becomes a slave to his parents.

Many non-government organizations as well as political and religious leaders are trying their best to root out this evil. Awareness should be created to discourage dowry system. Young men and women should come forward to put an end to this evil; otherwise it will be a curse forced on the women.

5 Responses to “Dowry System A Curse Forced on Women”

sara Says:

It takes courage to speak up as you have done! Every voice makes a difference in terms of change. Forty years ago…a black president would have been unthinkable. Likewise, as long as it takes–the dowry system will ultimately also be unthinkable.

NaziPrescottBush Says:

OH, I get it, the Banksters want to Eliminate the Dowry System so they can Tax what is Not Taxable,…. as if the World bank is Not evil.—- Try again, You Filthy Corporate Elite scum.

M Tirado Says:

I still think it is a great idea.
It shouldn’t prevent poor women from marrying.
I do agree that isn’t right but why should the husband bare the burdon without some incentive.

Renee Says:

I think wise women of India will say that they have no dowry coming….if the groom and his parents don’t appreciate the intrinsic worth of the wife, transferring her family’s wealth will not lighten her burden.

Let the bride’s parents refuse to dower their daughter…they can change their minds once they know the match has been a good one.

James Says:

Marriage is supposed to be based on Spiritual compatability. That compatability is made through love, not dowry. God created Adam then Eve, no dowry was given, unless you consider that Adam lost one of His ribs for a type of dowry. But that rib was a supernatural gift from God our Father anyway, not from Adam per se. Eve was born into existence and into marriage by and through Adams rib. Those young Indain women should move out of their country. Instead of their poor parents collecting gold and silver for her dowry. They should be doing it to send out of the country to a place where dowry is not a law. Then once she is married she can return to her country.

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